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How to Arrange Home Care for a Loved One (Step by Step)

A warm home carer holding hands with an older woman while arranging support at home
In short: To arrange home care, request a free care needs assessment from your local council (or go straight to a regulated provider if you are paying privately), sort out funding through a financial assessment, choose a provider registered with the CQC, CIW or RQIA, agree a written care plan, then start and review it as needs change. Private care can begin in days; the council route takes a few weeks.

Arranging home care follows six broad steps: request a free care needs assessment, have a financial assessment to work out funding, decide how the care will be paid for, choose a regulated provider, agree a personalised care plan, then start the care and review it regularly. If you are paying privately you can skip straight to choosing a provider, which is why home care can often begin within a few days.

If you have landed here because a parent had a fall, came out of hospital, or is quietly struggling to manage, take a breath. Arranging care feels daunting, but it is a well-worn path that thousands of families take every week, and you do not need to work it all out before you make the first call. This guide walks through each step in plain English, from the free assessment you are entitled to, through funding and choosing a provider, to the day care actually starts. For the bigger picture on what home care is and what it costs, see our complete guide to home care in the UK.

What are the steps to arrange home care?

There are six practical steps to arranging home care in the UK, whether you go through the council or organise it privately. The council route adds a free assessment and means test at the start; the private route lets you move faster. Either way, the destination is the same: a written plan and a carer at the door.

  1. Request a needs assessment. Ask your local council for a free care needs assessment to establish what support the person needs.
  2. Have a financial assessment. If care is needed, the council carries out a means test to decide how much, if anything, it will pay towards it.
  3. Decide how care is funded. Care may be council-funded, part-funded, self-funded, or in some cases fully funded by the NHS.
  4. Choose a provider. Check regulation and inspection reports, then pick a provider you trust to deliver the care.
  5. Agree a care plan. The provider visits, learns the person's routines and preferences, and writes a personalised plan.
  6. Start and review. Care begins, and the plan is reviewed and adjusted as needs change.

The table below shows a rough sense of timing for each route. Treat it as a guide, since councils and providers vary.

StepCouncil routePrivate route
Needs assessmentFree, usually a few weeks to arrangeProvider assessment, often within days
Financial assessmentMeans test follows the needs assessmentNot required if self-funding
Care plan agreedAfter funding is confirmedAt the first provider visit
Typical time to startAround two to six weeksOften within a few days

How do you get a care needs assessment?

Anyone can ask their local council for a free care needs assessment, whatever their income or savings. A social worker or occupational therapist looks at how the person manages everyday tasks such as washing, dressing, cooking and moving around, then recommends what support would help. You do not have to be on a low income to request one.

You can start the process online through GOV.UK, and there are clear plain-English overviews from the NHS and Age UK. The assessment is a conversation as much as a tick-box exercise, so it helps to be honest about the bad days rather than the good ones. It is easy to underplay difficulties out of pride or worry, but the assessor can only recommend support for the needs they hear about. Expect it to cover washing and dressing, meals and nutrition, medication, mobility and falls, continence, and how someone is coping emotionally and socially. It usually takes about an hour, can be done at home or over the phone, and ends with a written care and support plan setting out the needs the council agrees to meet.

If you are arranging care privately and do not want council involvement, you can skip this step. A good provider will carry out its own assessment before care starts, so the person's needs are still properly understood.

How do you sort out funding for home care?

Funding is worked out through a financial assessment, or means test, after the needs assessment. It looks at income and savings to decide how much the council will contribute. Many families end up using a mix of council help, benefits and their own money, so it is worth understanding the routes before you commit.

There are three main ways home care is paid for:

  • Local authority funding. After the means test, the council may pay towards care. In England, a person with capital above £23,250 generally pays for their own care, while those below the lower limit are largely assessed on income, with a sliding scale in between. These thresholds are set out in the GOV.UK charging guidance for 2025 to 2026. Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland set their own limits.
  • NHS funding. If someone has significant ongoing health needs, they may qualify for NHS Continuing Healthcare, which is fully funded and not means tested. It can be delivered at home.
  • Self-funding and benefits. Many families pay privately, often topped up by Attendance Allowance, a benefit for people over State Pension age that is not means tested and can be spent on care.

Funding is the part families find most confusing, so we have set it out step by step on our paying for care page. If you may be eligible for council help, it is worth requesting the assessment even if you expect to self-fund, because your circumstances can change over time.

How do you choose a home care provider?

Choose a provider by checking its regulation first, then looking at reliability, transparency and the quality of the carers. Every home care service must be registered with an independent regulator, and you can read its inspection report free of charge before you commit to anything.

The regulator depends on the nation: the Care Quality Commission (CQC) in England, Care Inspectorate Wales (CIW) in Wales, and the Regulation and Quality Improvement Authority (RQIA) in Northern Ireland. In England the CQC rates services Outstanding, Good, Requires Improvement or Inadequate, and you can search by name or postcode. Read the most recent report rather than relying on a headline rating alone. Beyond regulation, ask whether the same carers will visit regularly, how staff are vetted and trained, and what happens if a carer is off sick. Continuity of familiar faces is one of the clearest signs of a strong service. It also helps to write down your questions before you meet, because they are easy to forget on the day: what happens if a visit is going to be late, who answers the phone out of hours, how often the care plan is reviewed, and what notice period applies if you want to change or stop the service. National guidance from NICE (guideline NG21) also sets out what good home care should look like.

What goes into a care plan, and how soon can care start?

A care plan is a written document that spells out exactly what carers will do, when they will visit, and how the person likes things done. A good provider writes it after visiting to understand the person's routines, health needs and preferences, so care feels personal from the first day rather than one-size-fits-all.

Expect the plan to cover the tasks carers will help with, the times and length of visits, medication support, any risks to manage, and who to contact out of hours. It should name the person's wishes clearly, from how they like their tea to whether they prefer a male or female carer. Once the plan is agreed, visiting care can often begin within a few days, which is one of the real advantages of the private route. Live-in care usually takes a little longer because it matters so much to match the right carer to the household. The plan is never set in stone: it should be reviewed regularly and adjusted whenever needs change. You can read more about the day-to-day support on our home care pages.

How do you arrange home care in an emergency or after hospital?

In an urgent situation, such as a hospital discharge or a sudden decline, care can often be arranged quickly through a private provider that offers rapid-response cover. The hospital discharge team should also assess needs before someone leaves and can put short-term support in place, but you are still free to choose your own provider for ongoing care.

The key is not to wait until the day of discharge. Contact a provider early, explain the situation, and ask whether they can be ready for the day your relative comes home. A well-run service will move fast when it needs to, arranging an assessment and a starter care plan at short notice. This matters because the pressure on unpaid family carers is already high: Carers UK estimates there are around 5.8 million unpaid carers in the UK, and its research shows how quickly caring can affect health and work when support is not in place (Carers UK, key facts and figures). Protocol delivers home care across London and the South Coast, and you can see where we work on our areas we cover page. If you need to arrange care quickly, get in touch and we will help you move at the pace the situation needs.

Frequently asked questions

How long does it take to arrange home care?

If you arrange care privately, visiting care can often start within a few days once a provider has assessed needs and written a care plan. The council route takes longer because a needs assessment and financial assessment come first, which can take a few weeks. Live-in care usually needs a little more time to match the right carer.

Do I have to go through the council to get home care?

No. Anyone can approach a regulated home care provider directly and pay privately, which is often faster. The council route is worth using if you may qualify for funding, because a needs assessment is free for everyone regardless of income and can be requested even if you end up paying yourself.

Can I arrange home care for a parent who does not want it?

Yes, and it is common. Start with a gentle conversation about specific difficulties rather than the word care. Involve them in choosing the provider and shaping the plan so they keep control. A short trial of companionship or a single weekly visit often eases someone in more comfortably than a large change all at once.

What information should I have ready before I call a provider?

It helps to note what the person struggles with day to day, any medical conditions and medications, whether there have been recent falls or a hospital stay, the times of day help is most needed, and any funding already agreed. You do not need all of this to make the first call, but it speeds things up.

Who arranges home care after a hospital discharge?

The hospital discharge team should assess needs before someone leaves and can arrange short-term support. For ongoing care you can still choose your own provider. Reputable providers offer urgent cover for discharge, so it is worth contacting one early so a plan is ready for the day your relative comes home.

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